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Shallow I've been having a think about this whole Becky situation, it really doesn't bother me or effect me when she starts moaning at and about other people, but who is she to project her opinion so forcefully on to others? She is an insignificant 20 year old receptionist who we work with, not a friend, who by all means can have an opinion but doesn't need to make people feel bad when their opinions don't match hers. We also don't to have her butt in to conversations and throw in her thoughts when she's not invited or wanted there. It's getting beyond ridiculous now. She will have a moan about anything and everything. Your shoes, your clothes, your hair, your perfume/aftershave. If you don't like the same music or watch the same TV programmes and movies as her. That you prefer dogs/cats and that you treat them better than she does her own pets. There might be a smell in an office she doesn't like or you are eating food that she dowsn't like or wouldn't eat. Your family might be close-knit or distant. You may be fat, thin, bulimic, anorexic. You might be staying in at the weekend or going out. It mights be either too hot or cold somewhere and she'll let you know all about it. These are all the things she said today in the 3 and a half hours she was actually at work! What gives her the right to make you feel bad, ashamed or wrong about things as trivial as that? Because that is how she makes you feel. You might be going on holiday to somewhere lovely and hot but she'd prefer a cold holiday this year. You are in the wrong for not wanting the same as her. Now, does it really matter? She's not going on holiday with you, but she'll say things with such disgust, anger and venom in her voice that you feel guilty and end up wanting to cancel the holiday you've booked on a beach somewhere to go skiing because she said so! The sad thing is she is even like it with her family and friends. I realise it's probably just a jealous and attention seeking thing. She wants everyone to sit up and listen to her. That is where she is going wrong. No one really likes her at the office, no one would really like to be her friend. She has no one to confide in and certainly no one would confide in her. Eventually she will come to work in a place where they don't like people being like that, where a happy and peaceful atmosphere is what is wanted. She doesn't really allow that to happen. She'll work with people who don't like being told what to do by some jumped up snotty little girl with ambitions and thoughts well above her station. No wonder she can't keep a boyfriend when the guys she goes for a gorgeous, handsome, rich and dull, with very little to offer. It's all about looks as far as she's concerned. A true, deep, meaningful, loving relationship would bore the pants off her if there were no presents, designer clothes and good looks involved. All she gets is a one night stand and no communication with a guy for months until he fancies another go with her. To be honest I feel for any guy that goes near her, can you imagine the mouthful she'd give him if something wasn't to her shallow standards? She had her interview this afternoon for a placement at Camp America to become a counsellor or activity leader with lots of children spending summer in the USA. Why she wants to do this and work with children when she hates them is anyones guess. She's even making up totally unrealistic lies to try and get in. We are all crossing our fingers and hoping she'll get in. If she does she'll be out of our lives for good around May time and we just can't wait. She creates such a static and awkward atmosphere between staff and directors; they of course think the sun shines out of her backside at the minute. Although some truths have just been uncovered and we've found out she's told us even more lies than we thought. It looks as if the real Becky is finally beginning to emerge and hopefully she'll lose favour with the bosses like she has with the rest of the staff. I'm just hoping she'll leave the country soon and allow everyone in the company time to breathe and become how we were when she spent 3 months in Miami last year. It was fantastic without her, but there was always that black cloud of her return hanging over us. There won't be that this time and it's becoming increasingly bliss-like. So who's up for buying her leaving present, because I'm damn well not! |